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AVOID YOUR WOMAN OR MAN

Are you a womanizer? or you are a woman who collects lovers?

Well if you do, this article is written for you, because you have a gradual and unavoidable problem ahead. Maybe you might say: I can handle it. Don’t be fooled. Handling two birds in your two hands makes you inoperable and senseless.

You are just fooling yourself man, the first couple is just a man and a woman… no second wife or woman. They were singular in term, couple.

In the Old Testaments of the bible said:

Gen 2:24

Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

With your first wife and you two were one flesh. Do not be like Adam who sinned in the eyes of the Lord by his foolishness act and blaming God for his sin.

God asked Adam:

Gen 3:11

And he said, who told thee that thou were naked? Hast thou eaten of the tree, whereof I commanded thee that thou should not eat?

Adam Answered:

Gen 3:12

And the man said, the woman whom thou gave to be with me, she gave me of the tree, and I did eat.

Adam instead of begging the Lord for forgiveness… blame God for giving him the woman.

Be cautious in your selection of woman to be your wife. Select for the best. Not just for her beauty, her body, her wink of an eye, but most of all seek the guidance of the Lord in searching a good and righteous wife.

Now let us begin our topic:

If you choose a second love to your life, he or she brings you some thing that may amazed you...

THE GIFT OF YOUR SECOND LOVE

· ABANDONMENT OF FAMILY OBLIGATION

Family obligation is the highest responsibility that a married man could be expected to do so, not only for your wife but as well as to your children.

It expected as:

Wife	Youngster
Ø Enough Food Ø Clothes Ø Home Ø Caress Ø Activity Ø Correct Religion Ø Savings Ø Summer Outing Ø Appliances Ø Time to chic chat Ø Allowances	Ø Enough Food Ø Clothes Ø allowances Ø Home Ø Education Ø Recreation / Activity Ø Correct Religion Ø Savings Ø Care Ø Time to play

Within this provision your family would ensure a normal life as a happy family. But if someone will be suddenly come in between, this obligation and precious time that you enjoy together with your family will break out.

Sometimes man because of those obligations, reason out. Because of those things, especially if he is financially incapacitated, those obligations seems like to be an escape goat to turned back to his official responsibility.

· SHE WILL CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE

Gauge and be cautious with your attitude because having another woman in your life changes

everything in your personality especially, attitude.

Your attitude as you will observe it becomes easily heated. If you hear something to your wife that you don’t agree; your temper suddenly up rise.

You are easily bothered by so small problem that even to your child you seem bitter in your attitude. Every time you had an activity with your family you feel unhappy.

Even the touch of your wife, becomes helpless; you feel being irritated when she wants to be close to you.

You only feel happy and become somebody when your New Young woman was beside you or around.

· SHE OVERRIDES YOUR TIME

Other woman also and always over ride your time. Even in the office, when she calls; you always drop whatever work or business you handled. After office work, there

again she is; occupying your precious time. You go anywhere you want and you always forgotten the time your family expecting you. Your time is uncontrollable because she is an additional time to your preferred time schedule. That is, even in your family day you break every schedule because of her. Your too happy spending your time with her than your family time.

· REPEATED MISUNDERSTANDING HERE AND THERE

Every time your kids ask for anything you would answer in a manner that you did not understand them. You misunderstand them. Your communication with the family member becomes bothersome. Your senses does not reacting to whatever situation they got involved. You misunderstand them in every step…repeatedly.

· MISTRUST FEELING (PARANOID OF THE BRAIN)

Now since you get a feeling of trust to “the other woman” and you misunderstand members of your family, this is the stage of a mistrust feeling that you earned in correlation with your time,

misunderstanding, and the changes of your attitude.

1. Your feeling out of focus

2. Your senses become selective

3. Your decision is one sided

4. Your action imbalance and trackless

5. Your future plan cloudy, blur

Distrust to other person is the summary of negative attitudes; which in turn, corrupted our mind and create a feeling of mistrust to anybody and even yourself except the “other woman.”

· FINANCIAL DILEMMA HAUNT YOU

You cannot control this consequences, your budget will be uncontrollable. It is the result of the mistrust you created within your circle. Your finances break down because of infrequent / abnormal expenditure.

In this situation you really cannot manipulate it wisely because you are happy while spending money and time together with the “other woman.”

· OVERFLOWING DISEASES STACKS

Everybody thought that the worst of all is you will earn a disease in a relation with other woman. This is the reaction of everybody’s chemical reaction between the three of you particularly if you are not too hygienic before and after your sex encounter with any of them. This diseases may not be transparent in your young days but it will reside in your system and may not be a full time virus at that time; but, will be malignant in due time.

The following diseases can be yours for free in due time:

· Venereal Trichomoniasis symptoms

· STIs often asymptomatic

· Chlamydia symptoms

· Gonorrhea symptoms

· HIV symptoms

· Early signs and symptoms

· Late-stage HIV infection

· Genital herpes symptoms

· Human papillomavirus (HPV) infection and genital warts symptoms

· Hepatitis symptoms

· Syphilis symptoms

· Primary syphilis

· Secondary syphilis

· Latent syphilis

· Tertiary syphilis

· Neurosyphilial

If you have sex — oral, anal or vaginal intercourse and genital touching — you can get an STD, also called a sexually transmitted infection (STI). Straight or gay, married or single, you're vulnerable to STIs and STI symptoms. Thinking or hoping your partner doesn't have an STI is no protection — you need to know for sure. And although condoms are highly effective for reducing transmission of some STDs, no method is foolproof.
Read also the symptoms of each diseases at the end of the article.

· INTOLERABLE HEARTACHES…

EVERY MINUTES OF YOUR LIFE

As for the diseases it is really not the worst result of encounter / relation to “other woman” but unbearable heartaches, this heartache is caused by self-centeredness. Since you are assuming that your second woman loves you much than your wife then your mind and heart linger only to the romances and fantasy of your Queen;

Then any male who will be near or link to her is another story that crunched your heart a little and maybe the beginning of misunderstanding with your second love?

Maybe you can handle the first link upon another man of your second love whether it is true or not it does not matter but jealousy will stay in your heart. But if the jealousy will be frequently thrust on you then, it will create a “black hole” in your heart protruding up into your mind.

Another man in your love life can’t be resisted. But it is only one of the drawback of your sin.

Another is your Queen of hearts. Your relationship will surely fade away gradually, because the longer you became lovers in the dark, the more you knew her attitude and character and might create a comparison with your wife, you want to untangle / break the situation between you two, but the damage had been done, and you cannot patch up the damage because you’ve lost your focus.

And the worst of all the worst is the sin you have committed to God. Every reason or alibi your mind can produce cannot meddle what you have done to your wife and kids. You deliberately cut off the benefits, the happiness, the good times and their respected and integrity in the future.

METHOD OF AVOIDING A SECOND WOMAN

FOLLOW THIS OR ELSE…

1. YOUR APPEARANCE AND FACIAL EXPRESSION

Most women were attracted to man by their appearance. The way a man dressed up, posture, body formation, even the way they sit and stands attracts a woman.

After they were fascinated with the appearance, their facial expressions like a wink of an eye may ignite the attraction of a woman as a link.

Now you knew the attraction attributes, you certainly avoid this so you cannot be a switch to those attractions.

2. CARESS TO WOMAN

Woman is too susceptible to a caress of a man. They seem to lie down when somebody physically show affection when they were in distress.

Another weakness of a woman is when they are doing things that they can’t, then some male do it best and they believe and thankful, become fascinated.

Avoid to be a superman; to a woman, but rather be a superman to your wife.

3. DON’T BE A STAR

If you were in the middle of gatherings or chatting or session do not talk as if you were the prime actor, just play neutral, no accessory to be a star.

Anyway it is not just the voice or your knowledge is measured by being an actor in front of them but rather your good deeds.

4. AVOID SMELLY PERFUMES

Woman is very sensitive and captivated by a man’s fragrance. Therefore the best perfume to you is a not too smelly or manly scent but a slight one is the best.

5. AVOID PRECIOUS GADGET

The accessory of woman is very important to her, and she is passionate about it. At the back of it, woman also magnetize by a man who had precious gadgets with him.

For that reason, beware of showing your costly gadgets and devices or jewelry.

6. GET OUT OF APPEALING BODY MOVEMENT

As man is attracted to a woman with a charming body movement and its curvature so does a woman.

Be cautious with your body movement, try to move flat if adequate movement of your body is not needed.

7. GET OUT OF TOO EXPRESSIVE VOICE

Expressive voice get a second head twist. Perhaps, women were soft voiced. A powerful voice amazed them as if it gives power and security to them as a soft entity.

8. AVOID TOO MUCH BODY DECORATION

As we discussed it above it is not just the gadgets but, also too much jewelry or clothes that too expensive to the eyes of woman.

9. NEATNESS APPEAL IS DANGEROUS

Well it is true that neatness of man is a distinctive cause to a woman to be in love to a neat man. Avoid it! Simple clothes can be a good contradiction to neatness.

10. BODY CONTACT

It is not sometimes easy to make a distances to a woman so that body contact can be avoided, but try to do it in a nice and unnoticed way. Because a frequent body contact with woman will develop an urge to a man and also to a woman. Avoid it!

11. YOUR WIFE’S GIRL FRIENDS

AVOID THEM CLOSELY… YOU MIGHT BE TEMPTED TO THEIR BEAUTY.

HIGHLIGHTS OF THE STORY

In any event in our life one must always be remember, that loving someone is not an easy task. It is but always be an obligation. And it is the gauge of a man or woman of how responsible are you when you love somebody.

Apparently, to avoid not just a woman but anything in this earth that is beyond the restriction and limitation set by God, that can create to anyone a harmful effect. This outcome was experienced by the famous King in the Old Testaments: King David. When King David was attracted by the beauty of Bathsheba; and Bathsheba was charmingly intolerable to the power of King David, the woman Bathsheba give in her beautiful body to the King. After the encounter of the flesh, King David found out that Bathsheba was a married woman. Because of her exquisite beauty, the King manipulated a plan that killed the husband of the woman. And the sinned manifested to the King, when she conceive and bear a child, the child died because of the sin the King had committed. The King mourned and seek forgiveness before the Lord.

Righteous deeds begot righteous harvest, Unrighteous deeds becomes sin, and accumulated sin result punishment maybe forever in hell. This is because the outcome of the sin branches out from your wife to your child up to your first family and extending to the violations of the commandments set by a righteous and loving God.

Exodus_20:17

Thou shall not covet thy neighbor's house, thou shall not covet thy neighbor's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor any thing that is thy neighbor's.

And Summarizing:

Romans_13:9

For this,

Thou shall not commit adultery,

Thou shall not kill,

Thou shall not steal,

Thou shall not bear false witness,

Thou shall not covet; and if there be any other commandment, it is briefly comprehended in this saying, namely,

Thou shall love thy neighbor as thyself.

At the end of this day, don’t forget to thank
Lord Jesus and say:

to GOD be the glory…

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Common STDs and their symptoms

Learn about common and possible STD symptoms and how serious they might be.

By Mayo Clinic Staff

STI symptoms aren't always obvious. If you think you have STI symptoms or have been exposed to an STI, see a doctor. Some STIs are easy to treat and cure; others require more-complicated treatment to manage them.

It's essential to be evaluated, and — if diagnosed with an STI — get treated. It's also essential to inform your partner or partners so that they can be evaluated and treated.

If untreated, STIs can increase your risk of acquiring another STI such as HIV. This happens because an STI can stimulate an immune response in the genital area or cause sores, either of which might raise the risk of HIV transmission. Some untreated STIs can also lead to infertility.

STIs often asymptomatic

STIs often have no signs or symptoms (asymptomatic). Even with no symptoms, however, you can pass the infection to your sex partners. So it's important to use protection, such as a condom, during sex. And visit your doctor regularly for STI screening, so you can identify and treat an infection before you can pass it on.

Some of the following diseases, such as hepatitis, can be transmitted without sexual contact, by coming into contact with an infected person's blood. Others, such as gonorrhea, can only be transmitted through sexual contact.

Chlamydia symptoms

Chlamydia is a bacterial infection of your genital tract. Chlamydia may be difficult to detect because early-stage infections often cause few or no signs and symptoms. When they do occur, they usually start one to three weeks after you've been exposed to chlamydia. Even when signs and symptoms occur, they're often mild and passing, making them easy to overlook.

Signs and symptoms may include:

· Painful urination

· Lower abdominal pain

· Vaginal discharge in women

· Discharge from the penis in men

· Pain during sexual intercourse in women

· Bleeding between periods in women

· Testicular pain in men

Gonorrhea symptoms

Gonorrhea is a bacterial infection of your genital tract. It can also grow in your mouth, throat, eyes and anus. The first gonorrhea symptoms generally appear within 10 days after exposure. However, some people may be infected for months before signs or symptoms occur.

Signs and symptoms of gonorrhea may include:

· Thick, cloudy or bloody discharge from the penis or vagina

· Pain or burning sensation when urinating

· Heavy menstrual bleeding or bleeding between periods

· Painful, swollen testicles

· Painful bowel movements

· Anal itching

Trichomoniasis symptoms

Trichomoniasis is a common STI caused by a microscopic, one-celled parasite called Trichomonas vaginalis. This organism spreads during sexual intercourse with someone who already has the infection.

The organism usually infects the urinary tract in men, but often causes no symptoms. Trichomoniasis typically infects the vagina in women. When trichomoniasis causes symptoms, they may appear within five to 28 days of exposure and range from mild irritation to severe inflammation.

Signs and symptoms may include:

· Clear, white, greenish or yellowish vaginal discharge

· Discharge from the penis

· Strong vaginal odor

· Vaginal itching or irritation

· Itching or irritation inside the penis

· Pain during sexual intercourse

· Painful urination

HIV symptoms

HIV is an infection with the human immunodeficiency virus. HIV interferes with your body's ability to fight off viruses, bacteria and fungi that cause illness, and it can lead to AIDS, a chronic, life-threatening disease.

When first infected with HIV, you may have no symptoms. Some people develop a flu-like illness, usually two to six weeks after being infected. Still, the only way you know if you have HIV is to be tested.

Early signs and symptoms

Early HIV signs and symptoms may include:

· Fever

· Headache

· Sore throat

· Swollen lymph glands

· Rash

· Fatigue

These early signs and symptoms usually disappear within a week to a month and are often mistaken for those of another viral infection. During this period, you're highly infectious. More-persistent or -severe symptoms of HIV infection may not appear for 10 years or more after the initial infection.

As the virus continues to multiply and destroy immune cells, you may develop mild infections or chronic signs and symptoms such as:

· Swollen lymph nodes — often one of the first signs of HIV infection

· Diarrhea

· Weight loss

· Fever

· Cough and shortness of breath

Late-stage HIV infection

Signs and symptoms of late-stage HIV infection include:

· Persistent, unexplained fatigue

· Soaking night sweats

· Shaking chills or fever higher than 100.4 F (38 C) for several weeks

· Swelling of lymph nodes for more than three months

· Chronic diarrhea

· Persistent headaches

· Unusual, opportunistic infections

Genital herpes symptoms

Highly contagious, genital herpes is caused by a type of the herpes simplex virus (HSV) that enters your body through small breaks in your skin or mucous membranes. Most people with HSV never know they have it, because they have no signs or symptoms or the signs and symptoms are so mild they go unnoticed.

When signs and symptoms are noticeable, the first episode is generally the worst. Some people never have a second episode. Others, however, can have recurrent episodes for decades.

When present, genital herpes signs and symptoms may include:

· Small red bumps, blisters (vesicles) or open sores (ulcers) in the genital, anal and nearby areas

· Pain or itching around the genital area, buttocks and inner thighs

The initial symptom of genital herpes usually is pain or itching, beginning within a few weeks after exposure to an infected sexual partner. After several days, small red bumps may appear. They then rupture, becoming ulcers that ooze or bleed. Eventually, scabs form and the ulcers heal.

In women, sores can erupt in the vaginal area, external genitals, buttocks, anus or cervix. In men, sores can appear on the penis, scrotum, buttocks, anus or thighs, or inside the tube from the bladder through the penis (urethra).

Ulcers can make urination painful. You may also have pain and tenderness in your genital area until the infection clears. During an initial episode, you may have flu-like signs and symptoms, such as headache, muscle aches and fever, as well as swollen lymph nodes in your groin.

In some cases, the infection can be active and contagious even when sores aren't present.

Human papillomavirus (HPV) infection and genital warts symptoms

HPV infection is one of the most common types of STIs. Some forms put women at high risk of cervical cancer. Other forms cause genital warts. HPV usually has no signs or symptoms. The signs and symptoms of genital warts include:

· Small, flesh-colored or gray swellings in your genital area

· Several warts close together that take on a cauliflower shape

· Itching or discomfort in your genital area

· Bleeding with intercourse

Often, however, genital warts cause no symptoms. Genital warts may be as small as 1 millimeter in diameter or may multiply into large clusters.

In women, genital warts can grow on the vulva, the walls of the vagina, the area between the external genitals and the anus, and the cervix. In men, they may occur on the tip or shaft of the penis, the scrotum, or the anus. Genital warts can also develop in the mouth or throat of a person who has had oral sex with an infected person.

Hepatitis symptoms

Hepatitis A, hepatitis B and hepatitis C are all contagious viral infections that affect your liver. Hepatitis B and C are the most serious of the three, but each can cause your liver to become inflamed.

Some people never develop signs or symptoms. But for those who do, signs and symptoms may occur after several weeks and may include:

· Fatigue

· Nausea and vomiting

· Abdominal pain or discomfort, especially in the area of your liver on your right side beneath your lower ribs

· Loss of appetite

· Fever

· Dark urine

· Muscle or joint pain

· Itching

· Yellowing of your skin and the whites of your eyes (jaundice)

Syphilis symptoms

Syphilis is a bacterial infection. The disease affects your genitals, skin and mucous membranes, but it can also involve many other parts of your body, including your brain and your heart.

The signs and symptoms of syphilis may occur in four stages — primary, secondary, latent and tertiary. There's also a condition known as congenital syphilis, which occurs when a pregnant woman with syphilis passes the disease to her unborn infant. Congenital syphilis can be disabling, even life-threatening, so it's important for a pregnant woman with syphilis to be treated.

Primary syphilis

The first sign of syphilis, which may occur from 10 days to three months after exposure, may be a small, painless sore (chancre) on the part of your body where the infection was transmitted, usually your genitals, rectum, tongue or lips. A single chancre is typical, but there may be multiple sores.

The sore typically heals without treatment, but the underlying disease remains and may reappear in the second (secondary) or third (tertiary) stage.

Secondary syphilis

Signs and symptoms of secondary syphilis may begin three to six weeks after the chancre appears, and may include:

· Rash marked by red or reddish-brown, penny-sized sores over any area of your body, including your palms and soles

· Fever

· Enlarged lymph nodes

· Fatigue and a vague feeling of discomfort

· Soreness and aching

These signs and symptoms may disappear without treatment within a few weeks or repeatedly come and go for as long as a year.

Latent syphilis

In some people, a period called latent syphilis — in which no symptoms are present — may follow the secondary stage. Signs and symptoms may never return, or the disease may progress to the tertiary stage.

Tertiary syphilis

Without treatment, syphilis bacteria may spread, leading to serious internal organ damage and death years after the original infection.

Some of the signs and symptoms of tertiary syphilis include:

· Lack of coordination

· Numbness

· Paralysis

· Blindness

· Dementia

Neurosyphilis

At any stage, syphilis can affect the nervous system. Neurosyphilis may cause no signs or symptoms, or it can cause:

· Headache

· Behavior changes

· Movement problems

If you suspect you have an STI, see your doctor

If you suspect you have these or other STIs or that you may have been exposed to one, see your doctor for testing. Timely diagnosis and treatment are important to avoid or delay more-severe, potentially life-threatening health problems and to avoid infecting others.

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