HOW TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE GRADUALLY + FOREVER
"Change is the law of life.
And those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the future "
US President - John F. Kennedy -
US President - John F. Kennedy -
LIFE WAS unpleasant TO YOU
There comes a time when everything you do seems blatantly a catastrophe.
You've repeatedly try but it seems that you're a jinx.
A loser!
THEY LOVE ME - THEY LOVE ME NOT!
You're dear somebody said they really love you.
Vaguely to the true meaning of love, your heart says "They love me not." Physically who am I to run to? I refuse to accept these situations but they keep on poke me in a situation I HATE!
TAKE ME OUT OF THIS WORLD !
Then after all of this gnash condition ...
You wake in the middle of the night. You tried to organize yourself but, everybody was asleep that it looked as if they cared not.
WAIT - LOOK BACK - ANALYZE
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W - A - I - T !
Think about it first.
- Will this action satisfy the Problem?
- Will this action benefit one or both sides?
- Will this action conform by the law of the land and the law of God?
METHOD OF CHANGING YOUR LIFE
What are yourself discipline in order to reach success ? Change the method or your habit of doing it; maybe it is not working or it is a traditional habit of other people you are following. It is common among people these days to be average and not stand out too much . But successful people do not fall under this category. In order to stay on top of your game and reach the level of success you want , you need to follow a certain set of self-induced rules. Success is not something that happens by accident , if you want it bad enough, you will get it. Learn the habits that successful people have given up in order to reach their own success .
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Do not work in your comfort zone.
The reason we are comfortable in our comfort zone is because we are not taking risks when we are in this state. When we live in our comfort zones, we are living life like hamsters on a wheel, going around and around in a constant cycle, but going nowhere in our lives.
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Ask for an advice.
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See the big picture.
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No - to - multi-tasking.
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Feel free to get your feedback and act on it.
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Follow rules and Lead.
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Learn from the past dictate your future and good.
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Do not mingle around negative people.
http://www.lifehack.org/articles/productivity
- 1 SLEEP EARLY
Sleep plays an important role in your physical health. For example, sleep is involved in healing and repair of your heart and blood vessels. Ongoing sleep
deficiency is linked to an increased risk of heart disease, kidney disease, high blood pressure, diabetes, and stroke.
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The amount of sleep a person needs depends on many factors, including age in general:· Infants require about 14-15 hours a day.· Teenagers need about 8.5 to 9.5 hours on average.· Most adults need 7 to 9 hours a night for the best amount of sleep, although some people may need as few as 6 hours or as many as 10 hours of sleep each day.· Women in the first 3 months of pregnancy often need several more hours of sleep than usual.Sleep problems, including snoring, sleep apnea, insomnia, sleep deprivation, and restless legs syndrome, are common. Good sleep is necessary for optimal health and can affect hormone levels, mood and weight.Sleep is a naturally recurring state of mind characterized by altered consciousness , relatively inhibited sensory activity, inhibition of nearly all voluntary muscles , and reduced interactions with surroundings. During sleep, most systems are in an anabolic state, building up the immune, nervous, skeletal and muscular systems. Industrialization and artificial light have substantially altered by sleep habits in the last 100 years.Summing up you had to sleep from 9 or 10:00 pm in order to wake up at 5 or 6:00 pm so that you're body have a rest in a full work day. Sleep yourself in his own natural ways. This means no alternative beers or other things to help you gain sleep. With these habits the benefits would be a clear and alert mind and a body full of positive energy, ready to face tomorrow's challenges.WAKE UP EARLY
IT IS A MAGNIFICENT DAY THAT GOD HAD MADE FOR YOU
GO OUT AND WITNESS YOUR FIRST MORNING AFTER YOUR MISFORTUNE
Successful people are often very early risers. From Franklin to Obama, from Branson to Kennedy, they were all known to rise with the morning sun. Whatever their motivations, they all reaped the benefits of putting their feet on the floor before the cock opened its beak.
If you were to get up just one hour earlier each morning you would gain 15 days in a year.
There is a sense of control derived from beating your senses of not waking and getting up. If your mind wins the battle between victim and success, things start on a high note and usually only get better. Recognizing your positive sense is your best defense against bodily alarm. When the alarm goes off bodily and your senses tells you that you went to bed far too late to get up this early, or that five more minutes will not hurt, not listen - jump up you genius! - Get out of your bed.
1. START MOVING
What are yourself discipline in order to reach success ? Change the method or your habit of doing it; maybe it is not working or it is a traditional habit of other people you are following. It is common among people these days to be average and not stand out too much . But successful people do not fall under this category. In order to stay on top of your game and reach the level of success you want , you need to follow a certain set of self-induced rules. Success is not something that happens by accident , if you want it bad enough, you will get it. Learn the habits that successful people have given up in order to reach their own success .
·
Do not work in your comfort zone.
The reason we are comfortable in our comfort zone is because we are not taking risks when we are in this state. When we live in our comfort zones, we are living life like hamsters on a wheel, going around and around in a constant cycle, but going nowhere in our lives.
· Learn your game first before doing it
Learning is what we do best. The greatest thing about learning is that we receive the benefit in all aspects of our lives. Successful people strive to continue learning new things and expanding on things that they already know.
If we stop learning, then the only thing we can do is settle with what we already know; if we settle for that, then there is no way to expand our minds. Expansion is essential on the path to success. Since our minds require learning for expansion, we must never stop seeking new knowledge.
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Ask for an advice.
Richard Branson says: " When you need to make hard decisions , being able to discuss your ideas with entrepreneurs and business leaders who have solved similar problems can make all the difference."
Asking for advice is not always easy, so common people try to figure it out by themselves. But this could be limiting us from reaching our full potential, because the advice we might be seeking could be something that somebody knows very well .
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See the big picture.
When life gives us endless opportunities for the small details are very easy for us to become focused on, thus causing us to miss out on the overall vision, also known as the "big picture".
Focusing too much on the smaller details constricts your ability to see how everything ties together. Much of our lives hinged upon the connections that we make with others and with ourselves.
Imagine what would have happened if Henry Ford saw the small details. When building the company that Ford is today, he knew that he must do something different if his company was to succeed. He did not focus too much on the small details, which were the hundreds of times he failed, saw the overall goal and knew that it could be accomplished. It requires seeing the bigger picture to make it happen.
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No - to - multi-tasking.
Multitasking is typically viewed as a skill that only certain people possess. But truth be told, nobody actually has the ability to multitask. Multitasking is known to actually decrease productivity. Those who are successful focus on one specific task, and do that task to the best of their ability without interruption.
When you multitask, you limit your ability to fully focus on one task at a specific time. Successful people utilize the talents and abilities that they have it by focusing on one task and one task only.
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DO NOT LIE!
Lying to yourself is one of the easiest things for you to do. It is much more difficult to accept the problems that we have without make excuses for them. Successful people understand that we will encounter problems, both internally and externally.
But it is important to accept the problems that reside in our lives, rather than dealing with them and not lying to ourselves about them.
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Feel free to get your feedback and act on it.
Feedback is important, because it gives you a different perspective on your current situation. Sometimes you are not able to see the answer that is right in front of you. But when someone gives you feedback, it allows you to see something from the perspective of someone else.
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Follow rules and Lead.
There are two types of people in this world: leaders and followers. The ones who are successful are the ones who are leading the pack.
Successful people are not successful because they got there by chance. They did some good rules to follow to the finish line. They paved the path in life to get where they needed to be.
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Learn from the past dictate your future and good.
The past is something that we will never change, because without it, we would not have learned the lessons we needed to learn. These are the things that we learned to avoid in order to dictate what and visualize the things ahead of us.
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Do not mingle around negative people.
Negative people are very destructive to be around when it comes to achieving success, because there are so many situations that life throws at us and causes us to get down on ourselves or our situation. When you are around negative people enough, you start to see things negatively and you begin to lose sight of your dream.
Success is more about mindset than anything, and if you always have a negative mindset, life will reward you with negative outcomes to deal with.
To be successful requires focus and determination. It seems that every successful person follows similar patterns. Therefore, it's easy to see why they are where they are. They knew what they had to do in order to achieve their dreams and they did not let anyone or anything stop them from getting there.
You have the power in yourself to become one of those successful people you admire and look up to.
GO OUT YOURSELF ADVERTISING
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Advertise offers friendly, community attachment and help you choose a variety of opportunities that will enjoy your self. Advertise yourself to the neighborhood, tell them, that you are available for something you knew that they may need. Be friendly to people who look life as valuable as yours.
TRAVEL 10-100 km
You will learn about yourself when traveling.
§ You can measure your patience - When traveling, either by yourself or with friends gives you learning things to have patience with things that are out of your control (like delays, weather, etc) and you learn not to waste your patience with the things I do not deserve it (like certain attitude, intolerance, etc).
§ Learn to prioritize things - When traveling you will learn that we worry about so many things that do not really matter and that really have no effect in our lives. When traveling, if you find things that do not matter most, not care for it . Things tend to matter when they have a direct effect on you and when you can have a certain control over it
§ Be confident be contented - you earned your confidence is contentment in whatever things you have, then your eyes opened as you see how things that depend on you become accomplished. It's extremely satisfying to see all that you have accomplished so far, or doing a hiked cross-country, or at best surfing beaches in the world -whatever turns you on. This confidence in turn teaches you how to present yourself and how to interact with others -even if you're shy. confidence will you make friends on the road. You learn how to live without so many things you once thought were impossible to live without.
Traveling exposes you to different cultures and mentalities. When traveling alone, you get an even greater exposure since you do not enclose your social self with your group of friends. You get to talk more freely with locals, have deeper conversations, and even better to appreciate many different perspectives.
§ Speak out your likes and dislikes - Traveling alone gives us the capacity to develop our "real" likes and dislikes without much influence or peer pressure from society. It's just you and yourself ...
Having a greater independence and responsibilities - Traveling alone comes with greater responsibility. Everything depends on you. But at the same time, your independence gives you greater flexibility. Want to go to a specific museum? By all means, GO! Want to stay sleeping? Do it right. You are the master of your time, you do not require anything other than yourself for your own happiness.
§ Being more responsible - This one comes parallel with independence. I think first of all, when you decide to travel by yourself, you already know you can be responsible enough to take care of yourself.
§ Self Revelation, Love and Compassion - One of the most important things you get to learn about yourself when traveling is the love, compassion and yourself revelation. You travel for yourself, to re-discover yourself, to experiment with your life, to explore what's in you. Whether conscious or not, traveling alone serves as an eye opener and a catalyst for the love for oneself -thanks to the ease of constant introspection. And like they say, if you learn to love yourself, you'll learn to love and have compassion for your neighbors, fellow friends, and even strangers everyday.
At the end of the day after the traveling and things and the method by which reveals who you really are, and where you are meant to go; it should be a basic learning to thank God and say before we sleep early:
To GOD be the glory ...
THE BEST PART OF ALL YOU HAVE SAID AND DONE.
Good luck.
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