PEOPLE:
WHY DEPARTING LOOK AS
IF HURTING?
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| The President return at home |
BOSS,
You are leaving this
office . But your
legacy will remain
here
forever…
farewell
Mr. President.
The day a president step down to his position embarked a lot
of supposition to both the leftist and the rightist . Although every President
is a “ROCK” in whatever challenges comes into their six year term (Fighting
insurgency, Jailed the corrupt politician and government officials, the
annoying press questions and mistrust, his inexhaustible planning to cover up
the deficiency of the government …) they too is human! Subject to physical
injury and anxiety and most of all a feeling that hurts them – the feeling of
departing, a farewell, a bid of goodbye. Where does all these feeling come
from? We felt the pain and it really hurt us somewhere in our body.
Were emotional pain feel like physical pain?
Study says: Because our brain uses the same neural system to
process physical and emotional pain
All pain sensations, no matter where
they are registered, and ultimately originate
in the brain.
They used animal in their studies.
Study
says: If we separate a mammalian
infant from its mother, the infant will make distress vocalization cues.
Basically, it cries
(these vocalizations are present in majority of mammals.) These cry are the
earliest experiences of emotional pain.
But these were animals.
Far differ from human. Animals think not. Human have emotions, senses
that reacts to the changes of every happening in a real life situation. When
someone slump in a floor – the body reacts it hurts and sometimes leave a
wound. If a student got lower grades, you would saw them as they appeared smiling…but
deep down inside it hurts.
Where the hurting comes from? Why is it that our physical
human part reacts negatively to event? Slumped in a floor really hurts
physically, but the lower grades was just a norm to student who does not
reviewed before the exam. But deep inside -- felt a hurting thing in our
physical parts that hurts us. What are these things that extend beyond within a
feeling? Can we avoid it? Can we be invincible human that does not hurt by
every affair?
Different brain
images compared.
With the different
brain below, we can give a final conclusion that in emotions human and animal
were far in similarity. Therefore we might conclude that the in human there
is emotions, but in animals they have only the physical feeling. A puppy might
cry if mom was not around. Not because the puppy missed the mother. . Now do you
now have an idea why it hurts to say goodbye to someone dear to you?
Try to reconcile it with a milk and a blanket, it would not cry anymore. But give a try a seven year old kid and leave him to the school where there are children of his age. He perfectly will cry. Give him a toy, a lot of food but, he will still cry seeking for his mommy. These were because of the emotions that he feels that mommy was not around
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| a picky goodbye card |
BUT WHERE ARE THOSE WORDS COMES FROM?
When someone says “I'll Miss You"
Those words were deep emotions
within our body. Within those words you can picture what was really happening that
both were in gloominess because of departing each other. You can not solely say
that it is coming from the brain, because when someone dear is leaving the
heart throb fast and your brain is in confusion of the question “should I allow
this”? The brain does not miss the person it merely processed the situation to
utter the word “I’ll miss you…” and after saying those words the body relaxed
and tears come down; releasing the hurt and subside.
What are these things that
extend beyond within a feeling?
Everybody feels being hurt when someone bid goodbye. It is because may
be the person who is leaving contribute a big part of his or her life in terms
of materials, caress and service, or maybe just a happy moments when they were
together.
There are person - despite the fact that they gave you nothing in
materials, caress and served you not, you two have no happy moments, but he/she
smiles back in a pure hearts, it hurts your feeling when you knew that he/she
gone away. That was happened to a hospital. Some patients when you passed by
just gives you a whole hearted smile and the next morning you did not see her,
you asked the nurse and tells you: she’s gone. It tweaks a bit in your heart.
Can we avoid it?
“Pain is unavoidable thing”
A simple sample of this is a couple ten years in
their vow of “till death do us part” when her husband died in a car accident. It
causes too much pain. Can we avoid it?
The cat that wag its tail when you come back in your
pad after an stressed day work, you cat called and it doesn’t showed up. Your
heart thumps fast and mommy says: Your cat was smash into a truck! Can we
really avoid it? Others say we can. Can we thoroughly avoid it? No we can’t. It
just happens suddenly. Although somebody
said to somebody that we are the masters of our souls and destiny - it is
emphatic and never will it be true. The truth of it is just we cannot avoid
pain. As for an example in medicine -- gobble up a bunch of medicine would not
relieve the pain away, instead it branch up the disease and after it sphere-up
the pain. It will hurt you more.
“But after the pain that hurts is done, sun shines brightly
as it is before.”
What to do to freed yourself from "this hurting thing":
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Change your emotions from negative
to positive feelings.
Unmistakably,
if someone or something hurt you the best thing to do is to turned those
negatives into positives by telling yourself that it is naturally happened to
everybody and seek a method or idea that you re-focus yourself to other
valuable things and said “Thanks be to
God, Who liberate me from this feeling” I’m sure you will be sob, releasing
the pain inside you.
·
Rebuild yourself.
Don’t be too
serious to ‘that hurting feelings’. Everybody deserves to be happy. Jot down
and / or think of the past things when you’re doing something that you did not
finish. Start working it out. If you did not complete a course in college FINISHED IT. Be kind to everyone, this
will add up a feeling of satisfaction in your heart and when we are satisfied
our hearts delights.
·
Keep away from tête-à-tête (chat)
that touched what have been past.
Accordingly,
when somebody is starting to say about something of your past; try to avoid it.
Look it cannot bring yourself in liberty. It
can prevent you from gaining your FREEDOM.
Can’t we be an
invincible human that does not hurt by every situation?
YES IS THE ANSWER.
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It is a
matter of changing something that is within a thing. A good example is the
children that fighting. They fought well, hated each other in rage. But after a
day or two, with some boy reconcile them. They will go fine as the days goes
by. Asked them about what had happened to them before. They will just laugh.
What made them become invincible to that hurt thing? They throw out the rage,
the hatred that was in their heart- that is why they became invincible to that
hurt feeling.
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Acceptance
of the fact in a real life’s situation. Try not to accept in your birthday
party a person that you hated most. Did it hurt him or not? Sure it will. Try
to reverse the situation. It will hurt you much when they denied you to a
party. With this we ought to see a thing between them that causes the hurt
feeling. HATE. Now try to accept him
and forget what had happened between you two in the past. You two hurt no more.
Accept that we will all die in due time. If you’re mom or somebody who was too
old died, it will not hurt you. You would just say, “it will happen to anyone”.
Why it does not hurt you? Coz, you’ve already accepted the fact that everybody
die in due time. As a result, admitting the term of President Benigno Aquino
had ended… will ease your heart and relaxed your; mind then your heart would be
invincible to any opposition’s criticism to President Aquino. Accept it.
Jesus cried with a loud voice, saying Eli, Eli, lama sabachthani? That
is to say, My God, My God, why hast thou forsaken me? Mat 27:46.
In this scenario, did Jesus “hurt”? Most of the scholars would say Yes
He was because he cries.
My answer will be consistently NO. Because beforehand He knew it would
happen, He knew that His flesh will be hurt, injured, He knew all of the events
that will take place at that time long time ago. Can He avoid it? No. So,
within those parameters, we can picture that if Jesus could be inflicted by
those propositions before, He would not accept it (anyway, He will always be
the Son of God) He can even propose another scheme to God! But He did not
because JESUS is INVINCIBLE. “Crying is a method of releasing pain.”
The very next good thing after changing
your emotions: from negative to positive feelings. You rebuild
yourself thoroughly and spread your
thoughts to beneficial things which accumulate your satisfaction in doing
it and keep your acceptance of the true
situation, if you will just look behind, you would probably see other things and people who love you… and
the connection will go beyond your expectations.
LEARN TO SAY GOODBYE.
Goodbye - As he left Malacañang, people lined up along JP
Laurel Street in Manila, cheering him on as they bid goodbye to their neighbor of six years. On Times Street, Mr.
Aquino, still in his barong, gave a brief speech, thanking his neighbors for
putting up with the inconveniences brought by his six years in office. This
included paint being thrown at their gates and walls by protesters, who Mr.
Aquino described as people who were never satisfied with anything. “They came here to protest but they knew I didn’t
live here,” Mr. Aquino said. He
told his supporters that hopefully their lives would “go back to normal” now
that he has gone back to as a normal citizen.“A huge burden has been lifted off
my shoulders,” he said.
Unpacking
Citizen
Aquino added that he and his sisters would be unpacking a lot of things at the
remodeled Times
Street
home, then he would feed them “so that they will be energized.” Today, he will
attend a close cousin’s birthday celebration. He recalled so many fond memories
of Times Street, but the incident that left an indelible mark on his mind was
the time when the neighborhood put up yellow ribbons to welcome his father,
Ninoy Aquino, when the latter was allowed a furlough by the dictator Ferdinand
Marcos for the latter’s 25th wedding anniversary with his wife, Cory. It showed
the defiance of the people of Times Street against Marcos, the ex-President
said. He
said moving to Times Street was the “best decision” the Aquino family ever made. The
Aquino’s have been living on Times since 1961. The old house where Ninoy and
Cory lived had been remodeled in time for their only son’s return from Malacañang. Aquino
said he visited the refurbished house for the first time on Wednesday, June 29,
2016 and learned about the welcome party that his neighbors was preparing for
him.
Insistent, Excited
He
said he actually wanted to “discourage” such fanfare. But his neighbors were
insistent and they wereexcited
to have him home.“We are very happy that you have chosen to live here when you
have so many options. I am sure your late mother will be looking down and would
be very happy that you are staying with
us,” the village captain of Barangay West Triangle told him onstage.
Welcome
back
Then
he led everyone in cheering, “Welcome back PNoy!”
Aquino said he would host a
party for his neighbors as soon as he and his sisters have fixed the house.
Aquino accepted the fact that
time would come he will be replace. As an ex-president he showed his supporters
that he was invincible. He used to leave the Palace with a busy day; from his
protester unto the people who really love him. Take on your regret as a rule of
your everyday life, and would be customize you - ever after.
AT THE END OF THE DAY, WE WERE
JUST LIKE ANYBODY PASSING THIS BEAUTIFUL GREAT EARTH AND SAY AS YOU PASSED BY:
to GOD be the glory…
